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General Discussion / Re: One gift...?
« on: September 17, 2011, 02:10:50 AM »
It is a very good question. Can I post it in FB sometime? I'll attach your name and website 
Gifts I could share
I would say a gift of compassion toward myself. I think compassion towards themselves helps people to be less vulnerable, and they are more willing to face or deal with their fears and insecurities, handle their emotions and let go of things that don't serve them. Another one would be a gift of challenging stagnant thought processes through laughter.
Gift I can't share or choose not to share.
I think I also have a gift that I shouldn't share even though sometimes I don't listen to myself and do it. It is a gift of being able to see some people's landscapes even those that they themselves don't see sometimes. You can't just share gifts unless you learn or develop some skills to do it in a way that sharing make sense to others. And that part is the most difficult one sometimes. I think even a gift of 'service' most people so widely wave around like a flag in their hands and call it their purpose of life, soul's calling and so on requires a good set of skills. Sometimes those skills are built in but in many cases they have to be developed (speaking in software terms-hardware sometimes comes with built in software, but if not we need to develop or load comparable software before we can use it)
One of the things I learn from you is your ' people's speaking' skills. This is probably an area I'm most interested even though there are other areas of your writings that I probably benefit too. I think I'm developing my own style integrating it with what I learn from you. I still think you are providing too much of covering and warmth comforter (haha) when you discuss other people's issues with them and that I noticed elevates you in their heads but I see some benefits really well too.
Gifts I could share
I would say a gift of compassion toward myself. I think compassion towards themselves helps people to be less vulnerable, and they are more willing to face or deal with their fears and insecurities, handle their emotions and let go of things that don't serve them. Another one would be a gift of challenging stagnant thought processes through laughter.
Gift I can't share or choose not to share.
I think I also have a gift that I shouldn't share even though sometimes I don't listen to myself and do it. It is a gift of being able to see some people's landscapes even those that they themselves don't see sometimes. You can't just share gifts unless you learn or develop some skills to do it in a way that sharing make sense to others. And that part is the most difficult one sometimes. I think even a gift of 'service' most people so widely wave around like a flag in their hands and call it their purpose of life, soul's calling and so on requires a good set of skills. Sometimes those skills are built in but in many cases they have to be developed (speaking in software terms-hardware sometimes comes with built in software, but if not we need to develop or load comparable software before we can use it)
One of the things I learn from you is your ' people's speaking' skills. This is probably an area I'm most interested even though there are other areas of your writings that I probably benefit too. I think I'm developing my own style integrating it with what I learn from you. I still think you are providing too much of covering and warmth comforter (haha) when you discuss other people's issues with them and that I noticed elevates you in their heads but I see some benefits really well too.